It's funny, but I've recently read a similar post on a few of the blogs I follow, posts that say something like
"I know I'm not blogging...but certainly not for lack of content."And when I read them, I think "I should really post something like that so that people don't think we've fallen off the edge of the world."
But it's more than just busy. It's all about
trade-offs.We each are only given 24 hours. No more. No less.
You know that whole "rocks/pebbles/sand/water in a jar" analogy? If you fill your jar up with sand, the little stuff of life, you won't have room for the big rock priorities. So put in your priorities first, then the other important stuff, and whatever room is left for the things of lesser importance will shift around in their till your jar (day/life) is full.
I've been a little frustrated with my lack of blogging. Getting behind is no way to catch up from behind. Trust me, I've tried.
But then I realized that I was simply making time trade-offs. I haven't been blogging much. But I've added other things to my life. Like milking the goat. Like exercising. Like playing games with my kids. Like carting the boys to swimming lessons. Like sleeping. Yes, believe it or not, I'm actually getting a decent night's sleep
most nights. Most things remain. Teaching my children. Cleaning the house. Cooking. Leading worship. Caring for the farm.
Some things are temporarily getting the boot. Email. Blogging.
All in all, I think that for the time being, my trade-offs are all good. Focusing more on the important than on the urgent.
We're working on getting a little more organized with our days. Trying to be more structured (in a flexible kind of way!) with our school days, now that we're not carting off to the chiropractor twice a week and such.
Honestly, this whole concept of trade-offs, which is pretty simplistic on the surface, has us really re-thinking our priorities for when Karis (and possibly a brother...we're praying on it, and more on that later on the other blog!) comes home. Adjusting and attaching and incorporating any new child into a family takes time. More trade-offs. Worthwhile, sure. We're just trying to do some forward-thinking here.
But I tell you what, if I ever find the button on my kids that brings instant focus and efficiency to whatever activity they're engaged in, we'll be on a roll and fit everything in our 24 hours. (If you know where that button is, please share the secret)!