
Andrew turned six! At his request, we planned a party (at my request, it was small and low-key, unlike many of the parties thrown in these parts).
For his party, we planned ways to keep a group of six boys happy and outside as much as possible!
Here, they're getting their rain gear on to head outside to blow bubbles!
To my friend Heather and I, this sight was hysterical! It looks like they've all been sent to a time out for being naughty! Actually, they're hiding their eyes (well, except for Jacob) while we hide the peanuts for a peanut-hunt.
I've learned that peanut hunts are not a nationwide phenomena. For those of you who aren't familiar, they're really great...fun, easy, and long-lasting. Simply label a big ziploc bag with each child's name (paper lunch bag, if you're organized enough to remember to buy them ahead of time), get a huge bag of peanuts (in the shell), and scatter them all over the yard!
You can hide them in good hiding spots like you would hide an Easter egg, but you can also just throw them all over the grass and it works just as well...great for a range of ages!
After playing on the swingset, blowing bubbles, and having a peanut hunt, it was time for a picnic lunch in the tent (still set-up to dry from our camping trip)! Andrew requested pizza, pea pods, and watermelon for lunch. 
Cake time! Andrew wanted a "rocket party," which simply meant a rocket-ship cake, and we also pulled out the play rocket ship for the boys to play in. After cake and ice cream, we did a book exchange!I got the idea for the book exchange from Amy's post about Sky's birthday last year. Rather than have each child bring a present for the birthday-kid, everyone wrapped up a used, good-condition book. For me, this solved several things:
1. Helps avoid the materialistic mind-set that birthdays are just about getting presents (I know, I know...some of us adults still struggle with that one! And don't worry...he still got presents from his parents and extended family)!
2. Eliminates imposing the need to bring a gift on friends. (eliminates the subconscious "What if this is much more expensive/less expensive than other gifts there? What will they really like? Our gift budget can only go so far, and this is the 13th party we've been invited to, etc" conundrum).
3. Elminates the "we really appreciate all the nice gifts everyone brought, now where are we going to put all this stuff?"
4. Eliminates the "we really appreciate the nice gifts, but we don't do _____________ (pick your sore spot...Pokemon, Power Rangers, etc), now how are we going to get it out of the house?" conundrum.
5. Eliminates the worst part of the party...a bunch of kids sitting around restlessly for half-hour or more watching someone open presents and either not getting to play with any of them or some of them actually getting broken before the birthday-kid even gets to play with it.
6. Eliminates the "need" (okay, I know this isn't a need, but a very real peer-pressure that moms deal with) to have goody-bags for all the attendees...goody bags full of useless stuff that the mom will want out of the house before the week is out! (Speaking from experience here, albeit from my very "antitheses of a pack-rat" syndrome. No need for a goody-bag when you get a new book!
So, everyone brought a book (acutally, Neil brought two books, which was a good thing. Jacob was so excited to give his book to one of his friends, that he was carrying around the wrapped book all morning talking about who might get to take it home. Somehow in that process, it got lost, and no amount of searching by six little boys did any good to bring it to light. So, we proceeded with the extra book Neil brought so that everyone could play).
As you can see from the video, it was a blast! I turned it into a hot-potato like game, where they passed around the presents until I stopped the song. In theory, they would open whatever present they had when the music stopped. In reality, at least 2 of the boys would have in their possession the book they had brought! It took 3 or 4 tries on my part to get it so that only Andrew had the book he brought (I was trying for none of them to have what they brought, but it's more difficult than it sounds!), and since he was the birthday-boy he got to trade with whomever he chose! It was extremely helpful that Dave had come a little early for Neil, as he got the job of helping Jacob with the whole concept!
It's nothing short of miraculous to see six little boys, all of whom have had cake and ice cream, sit still and start reading a book that's brand-new to them (sorry, I didn't get the quiet part on video)!



































